Proverbs 13:24
WEB
One who spares the rod hates his son, but one who loves him is careful to discipline him.
BSB
He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.
KJV
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
Matthew Henry
Hebrew interlinear
H2820
v — restrain, refrain, refuse, spare, preserve, observe
Derivation: a primitive root; also interchangeable with 2821
to restrain or (reflex.) refrain; by implication, to refuse, spare, preserve; to observe
KJV: assuage, × darken, forbear, hinder, hold back, keep (back), punish, refrain, reserve, spare, withhold.
vb — withhold
חָשַׂךְ vb. withhold, refrain
Qal
1.
a. withhold, keep back, keep for oneself
b. keep one from evil, calamity
c. hold in check
d. refrain
e. spare
f. reserve for
2. (abs.) restrain, check (pain) i.e. assuage
Niph. at the day of calamity the wicked is spared
H7626
n-m — scion, stick, clan
Derivation: from an unused root probably meaning to branch off;
a scion, i.e. (literally) a stick (for punishing, writing, fighting, ruling, walking, etc.) or (figuratively) a clan
KJV: × correction, dart, rod, sceptre, staff, tribe.
n.m — rod
שֵׁ֫בֶט 189 n.m. 1. rod, staff, club, sceptre. 2. tribe
H8130
v — hate
Derivation: a primitive root;
to hate (personally)
KJV: enemy, foe, (be) hate(-ful, -r), odious, × utterly.
vb — hate
שָׂנֵא 145 vb. hate
Qal 128 hate
Niph. is hated
Pi. enemy
H1121
n-m — son
Derivation: from 1129;
a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or condition, etc., (like father or brother), etc.)
KJV: afflicted, age, (Ahoh-) (Ammon-) (Hachmon-) (Lev-) ite, (anoint-) ed one, appointed to, ( ) arrow, (Assyr-) (Babylon-) (Egypt-) (Grec-) ian, one born, bough, branch, breed, (young) bullock, (young) calf, × came up in, child, colt, × common, × corn, daughter, × of first, firstborn, foal, very fruitful, postage, × in, kid, lamb, ( ) man, meet, mighty, nephew, old, ( ) people, rebel, robber, × servant born, × soldier, son, spark, steward, stranger, × surely, them of, tumultuous one, valiant(-est), whelp, worthy, young (one), youth.
n.m — son
בֵּן 4870 n.m. son
1. son, male child, born of a woman
2. children (male and female)
3. youth, young men
4. the young of animals
5. of plant shoots
6. fig. of lifeless things, sparks, stars, arrows
7.
a. member of a guild, order or class
b. of animals son of (the) herd
8. ב׳ as n. relat. followed by word of quality, characteristic, etc.
9. n. relat. of age
n.pr.m — his son
בְּנוֹ 1 Ch 24:26, 27 as n.pr.m. in AV, RV, but render: the sons of Jaaziah his son, & the sons of Merari by Jaaziah his son, cf. VB & Be Öt.
H157
v — have affection
Derivation: or אָהֵב ; a primitive root;
to have affection for (sexually or otherwise)
KJV: (be-) love(-d, -ly, -r), like, friend.
vb — love
אָהֵב 216 vb. love
Qal
1. human love to human object
2. less oft. of appetite
3. love to God
4. esp. Pt.
5. of divine love
Niph. Pt. pl. lovely, loveable
Pi.
1. friends
2. lovers
H7836
v — dawn, be, early at any task, search for
Derivation: a primitive root;
properly, to dawn, i.e. (figuratively) be (up) early at any task (with the implication of earnestness); by extension, to search for (with painstaking)
KJV: (do something) betimes, enquire early, rise (seek) betimes, seek diligently) early, in the morning).
vb. denom — look early
[שָׁחַר] vb. denom. look early, diligently for
Qal Pr 11:27, elsewhere
Pi. seeks him early (with) discipline
H4148
n-m — chastisement, reproof, warning, instruction, restraint
Derivation: from 3256;
properly, chastisement; figuratively, reproof, warning or instruction; also restraint
KJV: bond, chastening(-eth), chastisement, check, correction, discipline, doctrine, instruction, rebuke.
n.m — discipline
מוּסָר n.m. discipline (of the moral nature), chastening, correction
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Verse 24
Proverbs 13:24
Note, 1. To the education of children in that which is good there is necessary a due correction of them for what is amiss; every child of ours is a child of Adam, and therefore has that foolishness bound up in its heart which calls for rebuke, more or less, the rod and reproof which give wisdom. Observe, It is his rod that must be used, the rod of a parent, directed by wisdom and love, and designed for good, not the rod of a servant. 2. It is good to begin betimes with the necessary restraints of children from that which is evil, before vicious habits are confirmed. The branch is easily bent when it is tender. 3. Those really hate their children, though they pretend to be fond of them, that do not keep them under a strict discipline, and by all proper methods, severe ones when gentle ones will not serve, make them sensible of their faults and afraid of offending. They abandon them to their worst enemy, to the most dangerous disease, and therefore hate them. Let this reconcile children to the correction their good parents give them; it is from love, and for their good, Heb 12:7-9.
Cross-references: Heb 12:7